If I Love My Kid ENough
A New  Book for Adoptive Parents


Excerpts

“Babies in agencies, children’s homes, or even foster care will probably not have the opportunity for an intimate, interactive, closely attuned experience with a stable mothering person-a necessary experience that stimulates optimal early development.”
Chapter 3 p.20

“In the developmental picture for an adopted child, there are extra stresses during this time frame from one through four. Often the baby feels she cannot count on anyone and has to be self-sufficient since her parent may disappear at any time.”
Chapter 4 p.37

“For the parent attempting to find services and supports for their children during these early school years, there is often considerable frustration and feelings of failure due to the difficulty of finding professionals who can understand what is going on with the children.”
Chapter 5 p.49


“Here was one of many widely accepted myths that I would have to give up:
children flourish when their parents are involved in their lives.”
Chapter 6 p.57


“Another adolescent pattern involves prolonged disruptive experiences
with persistent conflicts that may become a way of life. These youngsters will have difficulty developing a strong conscience and conforming to the rules of society. Other individuals remain, however, in a fixed, emotionally immature state.”

Chapter 6. p.68

Synopsis

"An important contribution to the literature on attachment in adoption. This book provides a unique understanding of attachment issues by a highly regarded therapist with may years of experience in the adoption field. It offers reassurance and specific solutions for building attachment in adoptive families."
Connie Mancini Haack, LCSW
Adoption Social Worker and Home Study Specialis
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Adoption Social Worker and Home Study Specialist

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About The Authors

Jean Mauro, LCSW Early in her career, Jean Roe Mauro, LCSW realized that her primary professional interest was in the health and welfare of children. A career in social work gave her the opportunity to pursue this field in depth. Her training included a certificate in child psychotherapy and community mental health practice from the Madeleine Borg Child Guidance Institute of the Jewish Board of Guardians, a children’s agency in New York City. She subsequently studied at the Blanck Institute for the Study of Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy also in New York City.

As a psychotherapist Jean worked and supervised in agencies across the country that specialized in foster care, residential treatment, adoptive services and child therapy. These agencies serve babies, birthmothers and adoptive families. Included among those agencies are The Child Welfare Unit in Oklahoma City, Hope Cottage-Children’s Bureau in Dallas, The Children’s Center in Atlanta, Vanderbilt Hospital Children’s Unit in Nashville, Hawthorne Cedar Knolls Residential Treatment Center of the Jewish board of Guardians, and Windward School in White Plains. She has also worked extensively with children and adults with learning disabilities and ADD.

Jean has been an active member, conference speaker and workshop facilitator for The Adoptive Parents Committee in the New York area. An adoptive parent herself, she has intimate knowledge of the subject and its influence on child development. Through her extensive research, Jean has been able to synthesize the work of pioneers and current researchers in the field of child development and present this information in a straightforward and easily understandable manner.

A psychotherapist in private practice in White Plains, NY for many years, Jean specializes in child, adolescent and family therapy with an emphasis on adoption.
  Sara-Jane Hardman Sara-Jane Hardman has lived in the New York area all her life. For many years she was an English teacher and administrator in the New York City School system. During her career she worked with children from many backgrounds with varied histories and family stories. These included youngsters representing a range of developmental stages, each with his unique personality and learning style.  
      As an adoptive parent and adoption advocate, she was President of the Adoptive Parents Committee in Westchester/Rockland counties where she ran workshops for adoptive families and immersed herself in adoption-related issues.

Today she is president of the Lifetime Learning Institute at Bard College in
Annandale-on-Hudson, New York.
 
     


The authors’ previous work can be viewed on line at adoptionarticles directory.com.
They are currently preparing an on-line parenting course for the BG Center for Cognitive-Developmental Assessment and Remediation in Nanuet, NY.

 
             
© Sara-Jane Hardman & Jean Roe Mauro, LCSW 2007 NY